Jive_Turkey
1,000+ Posts
So you value this woman's reference on a resume more than her potential to be the woman you spend the rest of your life with?
Maybe she ain't the one and you shouldn't even bother asking her out. Plenty of other fish in the sea whose reference you won't need.
Or you can man up and say, "Damnit, screw this reference excuse. I'm gonna ask her out because she is worth it."
Seriously, it's not like if you don't have her reference, you'll be destitute and on the streets.
Maybe she ain't the one and you shouldn't even bother asking her out. Plenty of other fish in the sea whose reference you won't need.
Or you can man up and say, "Damnit, screw this reference excuse. I'm gonna ask her out because she is worth it."
Seriously, it's not like if you don't have her reference, you'll be destitute and on the streets.