That's not what that means at all. "Bless your heart" is something entirely different. That was actually me being nice and saying something nice instead of insulting someone. How about if I change it to "I hope Jesus Christ gives you a good day tomorrow" and take out the word "bless"? You may hate me, but I do not hate you or anyone. You may be assuming I dislike you back, but that is not the case.
I am not pushing my religion on anyone. The players are demanding people do things. I have not asked anything of you or made any demands. You are free to believe what you want to believe. I have not told you to believe anything. As I said, I would not be offended by a muslim saying "may allah bless you". That would not be religion pushing either. I mean, if you do not believe in something, why should you or anyone be a offended by anyone asking their god you do not believe in to do good things for you? That is a well wish from the person, even if you do not believe it will lead to divine intervention.
You are wrongly choosing to take something positive and make it a negative. If you hit the lottery, would you complain about the huge income tax burden you just received? If someone offered you bread, would you complain they assumed you did not have any gluten allergies?
I am going to say a prayer for you that you will not falsely interpret kindness in your life as meanness. You may not care or like people wishing you well, but you should not take it as a negative. I genuinely hope you can have a more positive outlook. This is not condescension, this is genuine disturbance that you are taking a nice thing and trying to spin it badly. I will never be embarrassed about praying for other people, wishing other people well, or saying nice things to other people. Peace and Jesus Christ's blessings on you, friend!