I had a coworker who’s daughter went to St Edwards in Austin. Roommate’s family lived beyond their means, trying to keep up with the Jones (they were from the NYC area). Anyway, in the roommate’s junior or senior year the parents killed themselves. You are not an idiot.My daughter will soon be engaged. Her boyfriend is on a six year bachelor degree plan because he plays baseball without a scholarship. While I saved and paid for her school, his parents live way outside their means with several expensive cars and live in a 6,000 square foot home. He is running up loan debt so he will qualify for the forgiveness. I’m an idiot.