i was talking to some people in my van pool a few years back and mentioned that our son, (the starting center on a Big 10 team) was being backed up by a really athletic black guy. As the only girl (attractive black girl by the way) on our van pool was apparently listening she proceeded to let me know that she was offended by my comment.
I never understood why and she didn't tell me....was the word "black" offensive, or was it "athletic black guy"? Maybe she was offended because our son is white and just maybe she thought that he shouldn't be starting ahead of an athletic black guy....have no clue to this day and didn't want to stir anything up so I didn't ask.
Crazy mixed up world we live in today it seems.