ProdigalHorn
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I think they'd let me stay a lot longer before even approaching me. Why? Because I'd "look important." In addition, I don't think I'd get, "Sir, you need to leave if you're not going to order something" for quite awhile. I think I'd get a lot of, "Sir, is there something I can get for you?" And I think my response would get a lot of deference. If I said, "Not right now, ma'am. I'm waiting for somebody," I think I'd get, "well, let me know if I can get something for you." I might eventually be asked to leave, but I could drag that out for a long time.
I would imagine so - which begs the question with these guys. How long were they there? Did someone say "would you like something?" And they responded "No we're just waiting for someone." And an hour later they're still hanging around. That's why I hate situations like this because we're trying to judge it based on the account of the guys who are mad about the whole thing to begin with. They're not going to start off by saying "So we'd been sitting in there for two hours, crowded place, they asked us nicely if we wanted anything and we said no, and so they finally asked us after an hour to order something..."