Cool, I agree with most of your post. However the issue is - don't commit until you are sure because once you commit, that is it. This commitment is probably the first big commitment in these guys lives so "excusing" them for a withdrawn commitment sets a tone that exceptionalness has privileges which will end for them in less than 15 years, but the effects of which will scare them for the rest of their lives.
The process is a big part of the issue as the pressure grows as the scholarships available decline.
The process is a big part of the issue as the pressure grows as the scholarships available decline.