I sold my ticket right before the game for $500 (could not turn that down) so I watched it on TV at our tailgate party. Clearly I saw stuff y'all did not see because our gang came back from the game with the same thoughts as you guys on these plays. Those thoughts are not correct.
Onside Kick: CJ did not control the ball to the ground - he had it in his hands but lost it when he hit the ground. By the time he got control of the ball, he was out of bounds.
Fumble: The ball you are saying was a fumble was not, and it was ruled a catch and down by contact on the field, which on replay, was the correct call. The receiver caught the ball, took 3-4 steps, then was tackled. When he went down, his elbow hit the ground and then the ball came out.
There were really no calls that I thought they got majorly wrong. There were some I thought in live action were not correct (roughing the passer, for example) but, when I saw the replays we got on TV, I agreed with the calls made on the field.
The refs were not the reason we lost this game.