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Sorry for the anonymous posting, but I don't want to publicly air my dirty laundry and I could use some help.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 years and for the first bit things were pretty good. 3 months in though she froze up sexually and we have had very little activity in that area ever since. I know some of you may be uncomfortable discussing premarital sex, but if this wasn't a problem I'd marry her. She has been battling depression that she had stuffed down deep for a long time and was doing better, but had to switch insurance companies and lost her insurance and quit taking medicine. She starts it again in a couple of days and is in counseling, but I don't know if it is going to get better. It's been going on so long now that it has invaded other aspects of our relationship. I love her very much and am sort of at a loss for what to do. If I didn't love her so much, I'd have broken up with her a year ago. If this could get fixed, everything else about the relationship is perfect, but I can't face a life of abstinence. I don't really know what to do. If you could send some thoughts and prayers, I would appreciate it. I've been trying that from my end.
Thanks.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 years and for the first bit things were pretty good. 3 months in though she froze up sexually and we have had very little activity in that area ever since. I know some of you may be uncomfortable discussing premarital sex, but if this wasn't a problem I'd marry her. She has been battling depression that she had stuffed down deep for a long time and was doing better, but had to switch insurance companies and lost her insurance and quit taking medicine. She starts it again in a couple of days and is in counseling, but I don't know if it is going to get better. It's been going on so long now that it has invaded other aspects of our relationship. I love her very much and am sort of at a loss for what to do. If I didn't love her so much, I'd have broken up with her a year ago. If this could get fixed, everything else about the relationship is perfect, but I can't face a life of abstinence. I don't really know what to do. If you could send some thoughts and prayers, I would appreciate it. I've been trying that from my end.
Thanks.
