it's arrogant because you are saying basically:
"we are texas. when we offer you, you better accept now, or we will not be offering you anymore."
I realize this is your team and i realize RJ might have been out of line to even mention it, but what he says rings true to me. if a school did that to me, i would tell them thanks, but no thanks. I am going to look at all the schools and get back to you when i decide. it's great as long as the kid has dreamed of playing for texas, but apparently not every kid has that dream.
as a poster above said, mack has really changed the process with early commits. he was one of the first to really push for it an be successful in terms of entire classes committing early. but that doesn't change the fact that texas is basically saying when the offer comes, it is only good for the next couple of weeks. to a five star athlete, that might not work out so well for you in the future.
i'm just saying.