Coel,
If the US had for the last 50 years promoted true democracy in the Middle East then I would shut up and not say a thing. The reality is that the US has given billions to dictators and monarchs who have oppressed their people during that time.
By our own actions we have shown that true democracy for the people is not what we want. We can speculate about whether or not Iran may have leaned toward the Soviet influence, but that had not happened. I know this doesnt help because I cant link to it or give a citation that is verifiable, but my grandfather personally knew Mossadeq, and he was not going to become communist. He ended up in prison once the British succeeded in their coup and had the Shah take control. It was a power grab by the West, Britian in particular, and had less to do with Iran becoming possibly communist.
All I am saying is that people in the ME have had to deal with **** for a long time, and the US has been supportive of that ****, even if indirectly. People know this overseas, even if Americans are oblivious to it.
Does that mean innocent people should be blown up? No.