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After 4 years of marriage, my wife (and fellow UT grad)admitted to me that she was having an affair on one of her business trips. She says that we no longer have that chemistry and that she no longer has the same romantic feelings that she has for this other guy. Needless to say, I'm hurt and shocked since she is not the type of person that I would expect to do this sort of thing. She's not sure she wants to stay married and I am having a hard time learning to forgive her, but I'm not being uncivil about the situation. Should we cut our losses and move on or should we try to stick it out? We don't have any children, but we have a lot of friends in common and we work for the same company. I'm thinking she will do this again even though she feels terrible about what she did. Either way, your thoughts and prayers are appreciated.