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Yesterday, I feel like I lost the love of my life. We had plans together, we lived together, and traveled throughout the world this past semester. I met the family. I just started a new job..it seemed like everything was going great for us, until Christmas. We went to New Orleans over Christmas, where I watched this person that supposedly loved me self-destruct and exhibit her cheating ways. It got to the point on the way home from Christmas Day on the plane, she asked permission if she could "see" other guys while she went on a business trip to Mexico City. The breakup was horrible. Some of the things that she said to me...were quite souless. Our friends were mutual (most of hers), so i've lost a lot of them already. When I drive around Austin, I see the places we used to go to daily, and the activities that we would do. I went from being sad as hell to mad as hell. I'm lonely. I'm afraid that i've lost the belief in love, i've lost all trust in people.

Sorry that was so long, please pray for my well-being. It will be a hard the next few weeks, but I think if I can make it there, I will be fine. Thank you so much, especially if you read this entire story.
 
Prayer for sure! It sucks when you find out this, who you thought was a great person, turns out to be anything but. You'll start going through all the emotions I went through...like thinking back at certain events and seeing a hint to how she really is. "How could I have missed that? She's so selfish," you'll probably ask yourself. You'll now see the red flags.

As much as it hurts, let me tell you this brother, you are SO much better off. It sounds like a lie and it sure as hell doesn't feel like it right now but you are better off. Think of it like this, you just spent a great deal of your time loving someone more than yourself. That is the greatest gift we can give anyone because that is what Jesus did for us...aside from dying, of course. It sucks that she didn't feel the same way but because you know how to do that and will do that you are better off not only in the long run but when you do find someone who loves you more than herself you are going to be so much happier. Please believe it does get better and it will take a lot of time but you will come out stronger in the end.
 
I'm so sorry you have to go through this, but trust me, it will get better with time.

Hang in there and prayers.
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Dude, this is the best thing that could have happened to you- You are in my prayers, but I think God has looked out for you already on this one.
 
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