Engagement Called Off

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My fiance had decided to call off our engagement. We have been together 4 years and have gone through a lot, but have made it through everything. I will never understand what exactly sparked this, but I was hit with this news out of the blue and it has absolutly killed me inside.

I know this may not seem too serious, but I'm hurting so much right now that it makes it hard to face each day. He was my best friend, my soulmate, and the one true person in this world I could count on. I've been praying so hard that he will reconsider and realize that we were meant to be together, but I've almost lost hope. We had everything planned out, our wedding, a house,etc. and then this.

This has been the toughest year of my life so far and the one joy I had was my fiance. I know that I'm strong, but it hurts so much to think I loved someone so much and tried to do everything to make him happy but it wasnt good enough.

I know this isnt life or death, but I'm a wreck. It hurts to lose not only a partner and soulmate at that, but a best friend.

He is the most incredible person I've ever met and today I'm still in awe of him. And even though I would love to be with him, he deserves to be happy.

Any prayers would help. I'm praying I get the strength to figure out how to move on if this is truly the end of our relationship. And prayers for him to find what he is looking because eventhough I'm hurt by his actions, I will also love him and cherish all the moments we had.

Thank you.....hook 'em
 
You have our prayers and thoughts.

Also, should you need someone to talk to, Katy and I are almost always available. With all your friends probably having some emotional involvement with you both, sometimes it helps to talk to someone that has no stake in the relationship and no judgments either way.
 
My Mom was engaged to somebody else before he called it off. Then she met my Dad. 39 years later, my folks are still together.

I know times are tough, but hang in there. The strength is within you.
 
My prayers will include you and him. I'm sure it's real tough now, but I'm hoping you eventually realize that everything happens for a reason. And, you are better off in the long run knowing this now instead of later. While I wasn't engaged at the time, my girlfriend of 3 years who I was sure I would marry effectively dropped me. And it hurt bad. After a period of adjustment, things turned out well. I met a wonderful woman and had two beautiful children. The old girlfriend tried to come back into my life, but to no avail. My advise, for what its worth - stay busy and enjoy life! Best wishes.
 
I will pray for you, hopefully you return the favor. I posted the thread last night. Although I was not engaged or had 4 years with the person, I really felt she was the one. I pray that God give us the strength to move on and and become better people because of it. God bless.
 
You have every right to have the feelings you have, because you are grieving for something you have lost. And it IS a big deal.

I think I know who you are, and I can also offer you a sympathetic ear. I will keep you in my prayers.
 
I will ignore that last comment. It has been almost two months since I posted this thread. It has been a crazy two months and I never thought it would still hurt this much.

I've grown up a lot in the past two month and have learned a lot about myself and others too. So for that experience I am lucky. But I am still sad and hurt.

I'm just so confused right now. I know he still loves me and he showed me the other night but I'm afraid that he is too scared to follow his heart back to me.

For those who have their true love, tell them just how much you love them every day. I wish I would have shown him and told him just how much I loved him and how much he meant to me. I would and still would do anything for him.

I'm afraid I've been replaced and I just don't know what to do. I should be enjoying every bit of my life right now, but it is so hard knowing that he still loves me and I still love him.

I always sort of laughed at people who took breakups hard, but now I know that when you love someone so much it hurts like hell when you lose them.

I have good days, but today, right now, it has been hard to be happy. I just miss my best friend.
 
You seem like a sweet woman who deserves better. You need to snap out of it and look for someone who will treat you right.

That may hurt, but move on and find someone who is willing to love you. You are nice and sweet and I'm guessing a longhorn. What is not to like?

There is not a guy worth feeling bad each day. Have fun, enjoy your life, and find a nice longhorn.

I've been there, done that, and moved on to find my wonderful husband.

Enjoy being single and test the waters so you know what you want out of someone.

Prayers and stay strong.
 
I know it is difficult now, but there is a great possibility that in a couple of years you will be thanking God for intervening in this relationship and bringing you "the one." Totally cheesy, but that old Garth Brooks song "Unanswered Prayers" is dead on.

Prayers to you.
 
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