BevoJoe
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Yep. Stoning and beheading can place a person under duress.
True that, but is it an equal opportunity stoning or beheading?
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Yep. Stoning and beheading can place a person under duress.
HilariousA white privilege charge gone very wrong. Link
To think some white people feel good about flaying themselves for being white is.
Stealing money from the productive and giving it to the unproductive is a recipe for disaster.I ask the question; what is the point of the white privilege campaign? I say it's to layer the guilt on so thick that white people will roll over and allow more wealth redistribution. That is why the tax cuts were met with such scorn. They can't redistribute what they don't have. To say you worked 40 years, showed up every day, maintained a credit rating of 750-800 the entire time and went to night school means nothing; they can wipe out all of that in one sentence: "You benefited from white privilege so you owe us."
Otherwise, it's a meaningless and inflammatory statement. Does it make people feel good about themselves; maybe. They now have someone to blame.
Stealing money from the productive and giving it to the unproductive is a recipe for disaster.
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At first I misunderstood your point. I thought you meant that white people who voted for Trump feel guilty for being white.
Then I read the last post and I get it
and agree
To think some white people feel good about flaying themselves for being white is.
Equality of what?I don't feel guilty for being "white". I also don't ignore that I had advantages that others may not have historically had whether due to my "white" name on a resume, living in a primarily white community (and school) or a family structure that helped me navigate the transition into adult life. To be clear, I grew up in rural Nebraska in a single-parent household since age 7 and was the first person to graduate with a bachelors degree in my supporting parents side.
As someone that started my career as a corporate recruiter, it's my experience that ethnicity and ethnic influences do have have ramifications in who gets hired and gets to move up the corporate ladder. That influence is diminishing but still present, especially higher up in the echelons of the corporate world. This plays out as leaders look to people who they've worked with or "liked" in the past which happens to be more of an unintentional "old boys club". Ensuring leaders look more broadly at candidates is essential to ensuring the problem is perpetuated unimpeded.
I struggle with the idea that white males are suddenly the aggrieved party in the conversations when "equality" is the goal.
Equality is a mirage. Much like fairness.
I don't feel guilty for being "white". I also don't ignore that I had advantages that others may not have historically had whether due to my "white" name on a resume, living in a primarily white community (and school) or a family structure that helped me navigate the transition into adult life. To be clear, I grew up in rural Nebraska in a single-parent household since age 7 and was the first person to graduate with a bachelors degree in my supporting parents side.
As someone that started my career as a corporate recruiter, it's my experience that ethnicity and ethnic influences do have have ramifications in who gets hired and gets to move up the corporate ladder. That influence is diminishing but still present, especially higher up in the echelons of the corporate world. This plays out as leaders look to people who they've worked with or "liked" in the past which happens to be more of an unintentional "old boys club". Ensuring leaders look more broadly at candidates is essential to ensuring the problem is perpetuated unimpeded.
I struggle with the idea that white males are suddenly the aggrieved party in the conversations when "equality" is the goal.
We can make every effort to stop this sort of thing, but we should do so by looking at the individual, not the collective group. And we'll never get rid of it fully, because there isn't always time to give every human being a fair shake in every situation in life. The answer to that isn't judging white people's situation by their race any more than judging others by their race.
By the way, typing with my arms crossed is extremely difficult.
while I watch it and think "doesn't apply to me, hopefully others hear the message"
I don't feel guilty for being "white". I also don't ignore that I had advantages that others may not have historically had whether due to my "white" name on a resume, living in a primarily white community (and school) or a family structure that helped me navigate the transition into adult life.
I struggle with the idea that white males are suddenly the aggrieved party in the conversations when "equality" is the goal.
I remember that video. I commented that it was a perfect example of how bad/absent parenting can screw up a kid's life. That's not how the film makers wanted it to be interpreted, but that was the truth.And that speaks to your background and perspective, and to some extent how you see other men. If you really believe that "boys will be boys" means white men standing around a barbecue watching two kids pound on each other, or watching a pack of boys bully a weaker kid and saying "oh well!" then I would say that says more about you than it does about men in general. If you really believe that a substantial percentage of men are out there catcalling, egging on bullies, denigrating women, etc..., then it's going to be reflected in trying to rein in "men" - not just problem men, but men. And that's the progressive goal: to make people believe this is a widespread problem that can only be fixed if we start putting policies in place that will for men to "behave" in the acceptable manner.
Once I create broad policy decisions that apply to all men based on the actions of a few, then yes, in fact, the message does apply to you.
We talk about the problems with toxic masculinity (how you define that's pretty subjective), but ultimately the rise in so many of these issues has happened as fathers have become more and more removed from the picture. Maybe... just maybe... when there isn't a strong (and masculine) father in the picture every day, doing fatherly things, then the child has no model that's going to really impact his choices and show him how real men act, and maybe that's been one of the reasons why (if the allegations are true) there has been an increase in "toxic" behavior.
But we aren't going to push that narrative because it offends single mothers and feminists. So we're left with "why are men behaving like this? It must be because no one told them not to sexually harass women."
You know what would have been a fantastic ad? "The best dad a man can get." Talking about how when you're a dad, you're the one who's going to train your boys to be good men. Men who aren't engaged in all these toxic behaviors. Men who are treating women with respect. Men who aren't embarrassing the rest of us by their behavior.
That would have been positive. It would have addressed the real issues out there. And it would have acknowledged that while this is a real problem, we get that it's not all men, and not even most men. But we still have work to do.
The difference there is that the add is men speaking with men, not a company lecturing men as a third party.
Only when "equality of outcome" is the goal. The idea is that if you have succeeded and someone who is not white has not, the only difference in the equation that matters is race. You can deny that all you want, but no one's doing campaigns about staying married, making sure your kid has an active, engaged, employed, and in-home father.
it reminds me of that video that came out a while back that everyone shared on Facebook and said was "so powereful" - where they had the kids run a race, and the moderator had people take steps up and back depending on their race, or whether someone had ever done something to them in life, and he set it up so that the white boys were at the front and only had a few steps to go in order to succeed. I remember one of the women in the group being interviewed as saying "I had no idea I was at such a disadvantage until today!" Mission accomplished: it's about creating victims. It's about telling them that they have no chance to succeed on their own.
Because that's the message. When I line people up so that it's impossible for anyone but these two or three white kids to win, I teach the following:
1. It's a zero sum game. If they succeed in life, you lose.
2. You can't catch up. It's physically impossible no matter how hard you try.
3. The system is rigged. Look at those people up there. They don't have to do anything at all because life has put them in a place where they can't lose.
Whether that was the intent or not, that's how we structure sloppy allegories in such a way that they create victimhood and hopelessness.
For the first time in my life I have hired a "plaintiff's lawyer", and it took a huge product liability f***-up to do so. Admittedly, my perspective has changed, but only a little. I don't even like my own lawyers.
It was bad enough to cause a worldwide product recall, but I'm still alive. It was iffy for awhile, but I'm too damn mean to give up.
Just curious, but is there a such thing as Asian Privilege too? Maybe Asian Advantage sounds better. If there is racism (both institutionalized and social) against any group, its Asians. How does the Left explain how Asians are kicking everyone's butt even to the point that affirmative action works against them?