Yeah we do have to own up to grunge. That's on us...
Two points on that. First, it's on them, not me. I never liked grunge. I liked alternative music, but I leaned on the Jane's Addiction side, not the Nirvana side.
Second, for the sake of discussion, I'll accept responsibility for grunge. ÀMost grungers listened to Nirvana and Pearl Jam for awhile, and yes, they sometimes reeked of cigarettes and body odor. However, by 22 years old, most turned into adults, took showers, burned their flannel shirts, got jobs, got married, and started families. I'd rather be blamed for a crappy musical genre than a culturally destructive lifestyle.