Chicks with Boyfriends...

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RyanUTAustin

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I was downtown this weekend and met a girl who is smokin, exactly my type. I knew her friend from college but we had never been introduced.

So just the 2 of us stood there and talked for 20-30 at least in the club. I kept giving her outs to leave to see how good it was going, but she never took the bait. She even said at one point that she was enjoying talking to me and I was fun. I also had a couple of girls I went to HS with come by and tell her that I was a good guy. (of course I told them to shut up and I was a bad boy)

It gets to be 2am and she says she needs to get back to her friends...so I asked for the digits and she gladly handed them over. I told her that I didn't like formal dating and it was easier to just have her come over and watch a movie or do something casual. She said she was the same way.

I thought it was money until today when I found out through facebook that she has a boyfriend. I am not 100% positive but usually when her picture includes a guy...that is a bad sign.

Here are my questions:
1) Why do girls with boyfriends do this? Flirt / Talk / Give #, etc?
2) Should I try to hang out with her? I was thinking about just calling and asking her to hit the lake for the holiday or something.

What do ya'll think, is it worth pursuing or should I just let it go and not even call.
 
How long has it been since she logged into facebook?

Sounds like this chick was just into inflating her ego. Too bad.
 
I think you should call her. Find some way to come out in conversation to see if she does in fact have a boyfriend or not. If so, then you got your answer. If not, then it's gravy!
 
Since when in the history of man kind has girls having a "boyfriend" been an issue? Isn't it your job to convince her she will get a better deal from you? You youngsters today have some weird rules. Unless this dude is a friend of yours (or she is actually married) I really don't see why this was worth posting.
 
the reason this stuff happens to you is due to your religious beliefs.
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my recommendation: bang her, then ask questions
 
i'm thinking it's too obvious that you would see her page on one of y'alls mutual friends pages and that the dude in the picture is just a friend. she put it up becuase she thinks she looks hot in it.
call her.
 
A picture I regularly use as my 'profile pic' is me and my sister at my cousin's wedding...who knows who the guy in the picture is and yes...

You are over thinking this.
 
a piece of advice that I've never forgot "The good ones aren't just sitting around waiting for you to show up"

Girls and guys alike will better deal the **** out of you, until the think they've found the best. This chick must be looking to trade up....
 
If you only go for girls without boyfriends, unless you're lucky, you will never date a hot chick or you will only date emotionally unstable hot chicks.
 
Ryan,

You are making some big assumptions here. How do you know the pic isn't of her and her brother?? Or maybe its her ex. Who knows.

I met a girl in a similar situation and she wouldn't give me her digits... said to look it up on on UT directory. I did and on the directory they had the wrong number.

I figured that was her way of telling me to buzz off. I persisted and found her number through a friend. (the directory has 2 numbers transposed) We got married about 18 months later.
 
She either doesn't have a boyfriend or is looking for a new one. If it is the latter, I think you are right to be concerned that she'd do the same to you that she is doing to the current. But you haven't gone out yet. Whether that is a risk or not is something you can determine after you get to know her a little bit.

Either way, call her, take her out, and touch her stuff (if she lets you, of course).
 
RyanUT, it could easily be a family member or friend like suggested earlier. It could also be a front to keep losers online from hitting on her drive by fashion. At least to minimize it. The others are right, forge forward on a fact finding mission.

The 4th is a pretty big day and one that people often have plans made long in advance. So make sure you are not discouraged if she rebukes you by saying she is busy already because she is most likely is. If you do get the in for that day, cool, just don't try to read anything into her not being able to meet up. Just sayin', one overthinker to another.
 
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