I never went out and sold myself or my services until about 9 months ago. I made like 40 cold calls and had about a 25% success rate, which I've been told was very good.
At first, it was brutal, and I sat in my car not wanting to go in praying for help. After a while, it still wasn't something that I really liked doing, but it didn't make me sick to my stomach so much either.
The thing is, whoever talked about value creation was right. You can have the greatest product or service in the world, but if it doesn't add to the bottom line of the business you are trying to sell to or the personal happiness, or make life easier for an individual it's not going to work.
What you need to figure out is who you are trying to sell to and how what you have is going to help them.
I run a title company so I have banks, realtors, mortgage brokers, homebuilders etc that I coudl try to sell to. I only concentrated on Mortgage Brokers b/c I felt like I offered something in a niche (closings at nights, weekends, at thier houses or offices) that other title companys could not or were not able to add. I explained how that would add value to their business. I even charge more (not a ton, but a bit) then many of my competitiors but explained it was due to platinum level service that was going to make the process ridiculously easy for their buyer, not have them have to take off work, and would result in referalls later.
That was my business model for sales- find a niche and then exploit that and explain how your prodcut/service was going to add value to or make life easier for your potential customer.
If you have a good prodcut or service, you think about your market and approach it with the idea of trying to structure a win win proposition for both parties that add value to their bottom line you almost can't lose.
If you can't add value to the person you are trying to sell to in some way or another my advice would be don't go talk to that person. You might sell them something but it won't be to their benefit.
I closed every sales call by saying- look I don't want you to commit anything more than 1 deal in the future to me. If it isn't the easiest deal you've ever had and spectacularly successful I won't ever bother you again. I want to earn your trust so please send me one.
i probably got 10 customers of which 8 were still with me and are repeat over and over customers.
I didn't mess up the other 2 per se, they just had other people they used and threw me 1 deal as a courtesy for coming and talking to them, but I was super impressed with my success rate.
Remember:
1) Find a niche
2) Target your audience
3) Explain to them how your product will create value to their business or their life
4) Ask them nicely to give you a shot by buying 1 product or service
5) Call first to set up an appointment. I forgot to mention- I called all these people before I showed up and brought brekfast with me- I promised them it would only take 10 minutes of their time, I would bring breakfast (so they get something out of it, and breakfast is cheap) and it would be at the begginning of their day before the press of work gets too busy to give a salesman some time.
Good luck.
can I ask- what product/service are you trying to sell?