I thnk I'm busy this September. Seriously, though. This isn't about hating each other. If you treat your wife, kids, and pets right, don't patronize cock fights, and don't sell drugs to kids, then I consider you to be a decent human being. We do disagree - strongly - about the role science and religion play in responding to our challenges.
And as for religion - you really are off on your analysis of my attitudes. I was raised a Southern Baptist in West Texas. My family was typical of other Southern Baptist families in the neighborghood. We rarely went to church (mostly weddings & funerals), we drank beer & whiskey (but we bought the stuff in Wichita Falls where we would be unlikely to be seen by anyone who knew us), we cussed (but not in front of the women), and we bowed our heads at the highschool football games (but we didn't really think God was going to grant our kids victory). I married another good Baptist and we raised a Baptist daughter. We tolerate our differences.
So, no, I have no 'personal hurts' from Christians. I've just come to the realization that God is something we each create in our own image. Religion is fun to argue about but unless its adherents try to use it to lessen liberty, or try to use it to replace science, I have no real issue with religion or the religious.
Peace and prosperity my Longhorn buddy.