Another marriage in trouble

[Anonymous]

My wife has asked for a separation. We have been together for 9 years and have 3 children together. This completely caught me off-guard. We have had problems in the past, but were always able to work through them (or so I thought). She is terribly depressed and confused about everything. I am trying everything to help her get through this, but have been unable to help her. Please keep us in you prayers.

 

[HornHuskerDad]

Praying that God will provide guidance to all of you during this very difficult time.

HornHuskerDad

 

[Mike_Tyson]

Prayers for sure. I know this isn't really an advice forum and I have no idea what kind of issues there are...but all I can suggest is that you try to go back to when y'all first met and try to rekindle those feelings. Do the things that got her so you can hold onto her. Peace be with you.

 

[longhrnfan]

Before you start racking up attorney's fees (I'm a family law attorney in Miami), you should talk to her about counseling. It could save you a LOT of money in the long run.

Be prayerful, as I'm sure you are... that things will work out according to God's plan.

 

[mayberryrfd]

Ask her for six months where you two agree to try your best to see if this marriage can be saved (or give her time to think things through and change her mind). Then do everything you can to fix it together and make it work in that period. If it doesn't work out then and she still wants out, then you can say you did everything you could and can hopefully part in peace.

I hope it works out for you. Prayers extended.

 

[Anonymous]

Well, I am moving out this weekend. She wants to be apart to see if that will help things and possibly get back together. I have a suspicion that she has met someone else, though. The holidays have been very hard this year, but thankfully the kids enjoyed them.