Not MY boys! - James Harrison

My son has gotten plenty of "participation tropies" and admittedly they don't mean much -- but they are attractive nick-nacks, not a demotivator. Awards earned for genuine accomplishment may not be any more physically impressive, but we know it takes a lot more effort and excellence to be an Eagle Scout or play in the UIL State Championship Marching Band than to be a second string defensive tackle.
 
In my 20's I used to love coming home and visiting my trophy case at my parents' house. And you better damn well believe the reason was seeing those big trophy achievements as a reminder that I often succeeded when I did my best.

I remember my first year in Little League watching them hand out All-Stars trophies. I felt sad and disappointed in myself, knowing I was better than some older winners.

At that moment I vowed next year it would not happen again. It motivated me like crazy the next season and I achieved my goal. Those who think this is a harmless issue don't understand the true meaning and treasures within sports competition.

You want to make average kids feel special, give them a participation ribbon. They used to give those out for sports leagues with less funds. But give the winners a trophy to clearly distinguish their achievement, and also help motivate others to reach that level.

The Progressive Insurance commercial says it perfectly...

Flo: "Let's get you an ice cream, Champ"
Jimmy: "With sprinkles?"
Flo: "Sprinkles are for winners, Jimmy"
 
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When I was a kid playing sports, even if we won the whole enchilada, the coach got the good trophy. We got a blue ribbon. Later trophies were given out but only if you won a championship of some sort. Regardless of the trophies, we were motivated to improve and be better the next year.
 
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