Do you believe people look like they have certain attributes, even when they all have the same dress and haircut? I do.
It can be the first day of class, gym, summer camp, fraternity rush or whatever. Or it can be an ad on TV. You look somebody over and right away you have opinions on many topics. You know these first impressions are often wrong, but you have 'em. And what is interesting to me, they are invariably the same as everybody else. Who's the athlete, the ladies' man, the smart guy, the leader, the **** up, the funny guy, and most important the girl who'll put out? Most people seem to have a coomon view. I've heard that criminals can be shown a huge array of photos and be asked to pick out victims. They all pick the same ones. Movie casting agents do this well. Sean Connery looks like James Bond. Clint Eastwood looks like Dirty Harry. Tom Cruise looks like the fun loving frat boy. Harrison Ford looks like the President.
I'm sad to say I don't look like any of those parts. But I do have a look. It's fairly distinctive. Everybody immediately sizes me up the same way. For the most part it's favorable but parts are not. I don't know if the ones that are accurate but unflattering are more annoying, or the ones that are inaccurate and unflattering.
What about you? Do you think people have "a look"? Do you know your "look"? Is it accurate?
It can be the first day of class, gym, summer camp, fraternity rush or whatever. Or it can be an ad on TV. You look somebody over and right away you have opinions on many topics. You know these first impressions are often wrong, but you have 'em. And what is interesting to me, they are invariably the same as everybody else. Who's the athlete, the ladies' man, the smart guy, the leader, the **** up, the funny guy, and most important the girl who'll put out? Most people seem to have a coomon view. I've heard that criminals can be shown a huge array of photos and be asked to pick out victims. They all pick the same ones. Movie casting agents do this well. Sean Connery looks like James Bond. Clint Eastwood looks like Dirty Harry. Tom Cruise looks like the fun loving frat boy. Harrison Ford looks like the President.
I'm sad to say I don't look like any of those parts. But I do have a look. It's fairly distinctive. Everybody immediately sizes me up the same way. For the most part it's favorable but parts are not. I don't know if the ones that are accurate but unflattering are more annoying, or the ones that are inaccurate and unflattering.
What about you? Do you think people have "a look"? Do you know your "look"? Is it accurate?