I'm in a seating group this season with three other people, about 40 yard line, 5 or 10 rows up. Pretty good seats. We ran into some trouble trying to claim our seats at the BYU game this past weekend. I'm kind of wondering what the consensus is on whether we handled this correctly...
Long story short, we were late for the game (there was a loose dog about to get run over on 24th street on the walk to the stadium that we helped take care of) and we missed the majority of the 1st quarter. We eventually got to our seats and told the people in them to move over or they left or something, no big deal. At halftime, we wanted to go over to the alumni center for a drink or two before coming back. That took a lot longer than we had intended and we ended just staying the whole third quarter to hopefully minimize the minutes we missed (There are TVs playing the game everywhere, and we were rallying so I didn't want to miss stuff on the walk back).
Upon coming back in the four quarter, the section had gotten even more crowded, understandably, and sitting down there there is never any spare space to stand anyways. So once again we had to kick some people out of our seats, only this time this girl was a lot more resistant. My girlfriend told her that these were our seats and asked her if she would move down or back to her seats or something and she said "No". Unfortunately, my girlfriend slipped out a "Listen *****, ..." by accident and I think that made this girl even more mad. (My girlfriend immediately apologized, for what it's worth. It was actually an accident, haha). After a little more resistance, the girl eventually moved, but only after claiming that she had been there the whole game (not true) and not before sarcastically stating "yeah, only real fans come in the 4th quarter...".
Needless to say that made me pretty mad, but I'm about as anti-confrontational as they come, so I didn't say anything (I even tried standing in the aisle, but the neon shirts wouldn't let me).
I've gone to the games as a student for 4 years, I know what it's like. You just kinda go to your section and stand as close as possible and hope whoever's seat your in is somewhere better or doesn't show up. And if they do show up, you just scoot down and stand as sideways as possible before actually moving. Surprisingly enough, I haven't had to deal with this yet. I am in no way attached to the seats we have, but there wasn't spare area anywhere around our actual seats, so we had to, right? I just kind of got the impression that some people around us thought we were the bad guys, though, which I didn't really understand. (You can hear the murmurs of girls talking to their friend, and the guy next to me asked me "You all good now?" or something when we were finally able to stand. He said it as if he was annoyed, but that might have been my memory exaggerating it)
Should we have done something differently??
Long story short, we were late for the game (there was a loose dog about to get run over on 24th street on the walk to the stadium that we helped take care of) and we missed the majority of the 1st quarter. We eventually got to our seats and told the people in them to move over or they left or something, no big deal. At halftime, we wanted to go over to the alumni center for a drink or two before coming back. That took a lot longer than we had intended and we ended just staying the whole third quarter to hopefully minimize the minutes we missed (There are TVs playing the game everywhere, and we were rallying so I didn't want to miss stuff on the walk back).
Upon coming back in the four quarter, the section had gotten even more crowded, understandably, and sitting down there there is never any spare space to stand anyways. So once again we had to kick some people out of our seats, only this time this girl was a lot more resistant. My girlfriend told her that these were our seats and asked her if she would move down or back to her seats or something and she said "No". Unfortunately, my girlfriend slipped out a "Listen *****, ..." by accident and I think that made this girl even more mad. (My girlfriend immediately apologized, for what it's worth. It was actually an accident, haha). After a little more resistance, the girl eventually moved, but only after claiming that she had been there the whole game (not true) and not before sarcastically stating "yeah, only real fans come in the 4th quarter...".
Needless to say that made me pretty mad, but I'm about as anti-confrontational as they come, so I didn't say anything (I even tried standing in the aisle, but the neon shirts wouldn't let me).
I've gone to the games as a student for 4 years, I know what it's like. You just kinda go to your section and stand as close as possible and hope whoever's seat your in is somewhere better or doesn't show up. And if they do show up, you just scoot down and stand as sideways as possible before actually moving. Surprisingly enough, I haven't had to deal with this yet. I am in no way attached to the seats we have, but there wasn't spare area anywhere around our actual seats, so we had to, right? I just kind of got the impression that some people around us thought we were the bad guys, though, which I didn't really understand. (You can hear the murmurs of girls talking to their friend, and the guy next to me asked me "You all good now?" or something when we were finally able to stand. He said it as if he was annoyed, but that might have been my memory exaggerating it)
Should we have done something differently??